Thursday 14th February 2013


We're back again for another evening of Inspiration, Learning and Laughter - WELCOME TO YOU ALL - on Thursday 14th February... YES - 'Valentines Day', where? Only at Croydon Communicators!

How nice is it to be greeted by not only one but two friendly meeter’s & greeters, Shawn & Elizabeth at the door to make everyone feel welcome.

Sergeant at Arms, Anne opened the meeting with BANG which got our attention! WELCOME.

The evening definitely had a Valentine feeling in the air and with our stand in President Cheryn eloquently addressing the audience in beautiful pink, this added more essence to the event. What a great place to be on a Valentines day evening being inspired, educated and building Leadership and Public Speaking skills.

Leadership skills are what we're about at Croydon Communicators and to prove this, stand in president, Cheryn doubled up as Toastmaster for the evening and kept the flow of the evening moving.

There's no time to waste; Mathew in his first time role (CONGRATULATIONS Mathew) as timekeeper took centre stage and described the role. Speakers, be sure to be on time because "that bell will ring!'.

A new role has come about and who better than Amma (CONGRATULATIONS Amma) to come and explain and take up the role of 'Ah  Counter'. We'll be listening out for them!

It's the way you say it that counts, so how about someone to listen to our grammar? Welcome Paul in his first time role as the Grammarian (CONGRATULATIONS Paul).  He presented the 'word of the day' - "Embrace" - how appropriate to ‘embrace’ on this Valentines day meeting.

How about a 'Tip of the Day'? Being Valentines day and eight years in the business of Toastmasters the experienced and delightful Sneha was simply brilliant in giving a 'Top Tip' - "Have a date with your Mentor". Again, how appropriate in context and delivery.

Time to get busy and warm up the Audience; warm up leader Raj - another first time role (CONGRATULATIONS Raj) set the question; "Tell us your favourite love film?" The audience certainly knew a thing or two about love films; 'Pride & Prejudice',
'Sliding Doors', 'Titanic', 'Always - by Steven Spielberg', 'Two Can Play That Game',  and many many more not to mention 'Top Gun'?!!

With the audience warmed up and speakers eager to go there were four speeches lined up.

First was an ICEBREAKER speech by Arish - 'Life and Transitions' - (CONGRATULATIONS ARISH). What a way to start life in the Toastmaster arena with a compelling speech about life's progression. Fantastic!

The second speech had everyone in the audience raising their hands which the question and title of the speech 'Who Wants to be a Millionaire?' - I wonder why? With a few technicalities with the projector not firing up immediately Donna was quick to brush over it and said "If I was a Millionaire I'd buy a new projector". Now there was a lesson in improvisation technique and not to get flustered when delivered a speech when circumstances beyond your control can throw a hic-up. The speech took the audience to another level with great interaction, thought provoking financial tips and anecdotes including ‘Millionaire late Syndrome'. Donna, are you sure you are not hiding your millionaire? Was that only your second speech? Just Brilliant.

Two more speeches lined up and third to take the stage was Simon with his speech titled, 'A moment in Time'. What a powerful and engaging speech! One could have sworn that the audience was being hypnotised! Fourty years in the business as a hypnotherapist and a wealth of knowledge came across. The Power of Now! Truly inspiring.

Last but certainly not least, Mohan took centre stage and presented 'Am I an Efficient Manager'. Well we can all say Mohan, your on top of your game and presenting to 200 people at a conference surely puts you on that platform of 'Efficient Managers. Very well done.

With all four speeches completed the standard was surely showing - EXCELLENCE TOGETHER.

Stand in President and Toastmaster Cheryn introduced the evaluators Joe, Raquel, Anne & Aarthi for some encouraging comments, commendations and recommendations on the four speeches.

First to evaluate was Joe evaluating Arish's ICEBREAKER speech 'Life and Transitions'. Joe pointed out the confidence, stage presence and great delivery for an ICEBREAKER, and then welcomed Arish to the Toastmaster journey.

Second up in the evaluation process was Raquel, evaluating Raj's speech 'The Unforgettable Days'. Raquel's evaluation clearly following the Commend, Commend, Recommend, Recommend, Commend technique with a great summary and "thanks for the investment advise Donna".

The third speech evaluation was Aarthi evaluating Simon's speech 'A moment in Time'. Aarthi's natural stage presence and talented evaluation delivery clearly shone through outlining 'A confident Simon'.

Last up to evaluate was Anne evaluating Mohan's speech 'Am I an Efficient Manager'. Anne clearly demonstrated great observation and detail in evaluating a very engaging speech and 'it's OK to use notes'.

A call for timings so far by our Toastmaster brought to the stage Matthew who hadn't used the bell yet. Well it is Valentine's day!

After a short break the session reconvened for a very interesting Valentine's Day Table Topic's session skilfully presented by Anjali (CONGRATULATIONS) with a difference!

The topics questions evolved around what other than a pack of cards (Hearts Suite) to relate and ask the question; "Give us your meaning/interpretation of...?"

Starting with the ACE of Hearts card - Gareth, "You have a Big Heart"; 
2 of Hearts, the card of two Hearts - Dave L, "Two's company Three's a crowd";
3 of Hearts, the card of Happiness - Elizabeth, "Three's Happiness on Valentines day;
4 of Hearts, the card of Foundation & Stability - Samir, caught of guard but quickly got into his stride, "Foundation creates Stability";
5 of Hearts, the card of Restless Love & Passion - Sneha, "Singing song's on Love on Valentines Day".

And with time running out and not enough time to complete the full pack of 13 cards, what a beautiful way to round off the table topics with...

6 of Hearts, the card of Relationships & Friendships - Shawn, "Happy Valentines Days :-)"

To top off Topics Master Anjali closed my mentioning to her beloved husband, Kaushik "I Love You".

Valentine is definitely in the air and a call for the final timings was made and Mathew returned to the stage. Too good to be true - No Bells and all on time.

With the event coming to a swift end and a ‘valentined’ audience Paul gave us a report on the evening's grammar noticing some very good play in words; "Late Factor", "A Late Spurned is a Fortune Earned".

It's very interesting to get feedback on word fillers and Amma presented her observations on the number of Erm’s & Aar's throughout the evening’s events. Superbly delivered, purposeful feedback.  It works!

General Evaluator David T summarized the Valentine evening's proceedings. WOW, Impact! Energy, Hearts & Diamonds, warm meeters & greeters... Well Done, once again EXCELLENCE TOGETHER at Croydon Communicators.

A finally word from our stand in President & Toastmaster for the evening allowed all new and returning guests to have their  say... Here's your chance guests, say it as it is.


OBSERVATION is great but, 'PRACTICE makes PERFECT'. Take part, you can only improve!

Build your Public Speaking skills, Confidence and Leadership skills, pay us a visit and be inspired.

Croydon Communicators certainly demonstrated another evening of "EXCELLENCE TOGETHER"

Can't wait until the next meeting - Thurs 14th March 18:45 prompt! Everyone is welcome.  Bring a friend!

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Excellence Together at Croydon Communicators. Mind in Croydon, 10 Altyre Road, E. Croydon CR0 5LA